People usually think that they should not confront their children for anything they do. This is a mistake which can have lifelong impact on the child’s life. The impact of such mistakes although may remain dormant for years.
All parents want to have a loving relationship with the children and in doing so they forget to teach their children discipline or in other words get confused between being caring and lack of discipline.
People forget the responsibility of being parents and let their children do what they like to. The children take advantage of this and cross the boundaries around them. As responsible parents we should put some limits to the children’s activities and decide about they should do and what they shouldn’t.
When children do not follow some rule they must realize and understand the cost of their act. Limits for children are a must and people should know this. Children actually need limits because it makes them feel safe when they understand them well. It might sound unusual but experts of the field believe that in the long run such sensible limits give sense of love and care to the children
It may be difficult for parents for saying no to the children’s irrational demands because of the trend of agreeing with the children in everything they do. But we all know about the spoiled children who are the result of this mistake.
Those who cannot make their mind to set limits on their children must think about why they, as parents should do something and why as youngster their children shouldn’t. This will help you realize the need of limits on the children.
Although it is difficult but if you really love your children and care for them, you will realize that the results of put rational limit on your children’s life are more valuable than the struggle you made for this purpose.
No one knows everything about life. It is therefore important to lookout for all the information and knowledge and provide it to your child so as to make his life easy.
Source : Hafana